Asian Dad Gets Laid Off from Tech job and goes Viral

Asian Dad get laid off from decades long tech careerAn Asian dad gets laid off after working decades in Tech, and his video about the experience has gone viral.  Why did that happen?  For me, his situation really connected.  Like Asian Dad Energy (his channel name and what I will call him), I am an Ivy League educated engineer and father who took a package to leave a job in Big Tech after decades of work. With many other people being laid off from Tech, his experiences resonates widely.

As Asian Americans, we are often raised to chase big prizes like Ivy league educations and high paying jobs in Tech. But are those prizes worth the cost?  Asian Dad Energy tells the story of an excellent and hardworking engineer who was looking to finally get some time with his son. That engineer then gets sick and died, and weeks later, at work, it is like nothing happened. I have heard versions of this story happening to people time and time again. I also thought of the movie Didi. In that movie, the main character’s father is gone, working remotely through out the movie.

Like many people laid off, Asian Dad Energy is looking for what’s next. He feels lucky that he isn’t under a lot of financial pressure but wonders about next steps. As for myself, I took a little over a year to find a new job, not in Big Tech, but doing tech for a nonprofit.  I find this really meaningful and less stressful. Asian Dad Energy also discusses highly topical issues like age discrimination and budgeting. I will be following Asian Dad Energy to see what happens next for him.

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Filipino American Silicon Valley Pioneer Dado Banatao dies at 79

Filipino American Silicon Valley Pioneer Dado Banatao dies at 79 - a Stamp from the Philippines

Stamp that Philippines issued to commemorate Dado Banatao

I was saddened to read that Filipino American Silicon Valley Pioneer Dado Banatao dies at 79. As you can see from his story shown in the video above, his life was a true rags-to-riches story.  Not only was he a remarkable technologist but also a generous philanthropist. I met him and his wife Maria early in my career. Looking back, he had an ongoing influence in my life that I never realized.

Defying Stereotypes

When I met him at a meeting of Filipino American Society of Architects and Engineers (there was once an active Northern California branch) in the 1980’s, I was impressed how accomplished he was a founder and technologist, particularly as a Filipino American.  Back then, a lot of chip manufacturing and assembly happened in the Silicon Valley. Most of the Filipino Americans in tech then were assemblers. A curious racial hierarchy ruled the valley – you would see many Filipino assemblers and technicians, Chinese and Indian Engineers, and white management.  Even much later, not many Filipino American have become tech entrepreneurs. Yet during that time, he managed to break those stereotypical roles in a stunningly successful way. Above all, he and his wife seemed pretty humble and just regular folks.

Silicon Valley Impact

Much of modern technology is influenced by Banatao’s work. He was a member of the Homebrew Computer Club and met Steve Jobs and Steve Wozniak there. When I talked to him, he was proud of his work on the Commodore Pet, one of the early personal computers. At one point, the Commodore Pet outsold Apple computers!  His company Chips and Technologies created chip sets that made it easy for companies to create IBM PC compatible computers, creating an enormous boom in Silicon Valley.  This personally benefited me directly, as I worked at Intel at that time.

My career path led me to be a systems and network administrator. Banatao’s creation of an ethernet controller chip enabled computer networking to really take off.  Yet another way I and many others benefited from his work!

There are other contributions he made that affect almost everyone’s daily life. He pioneered graphics accelerator chips, a market that Nvidia would dominate and would use to power AI. One of his companies helped popularly consumer GPS.

Philanthropy

Dado Banatao never forgot his past growing up as a poor farmer’s son and going to school barefoot. He founded Phildev, an organization dedicated toward promoted STEM in the Philippines and with Filipino Americans.  I actually volunteered as a mentor for Phildev scholarship students but had no idea that he was the founder of Phildev. He also was a founder of CITRIS, a University of California Research institute looking to use technology to improve people’s lives. After I had left Intel, I was looking  at jobs and was really interested in CITRIS. Again, I had no idea of his role with this organization.

Obituary and Message from his Family

His family has posted a message on their website regarding his death. They also show pictures from his life and have a space for people to share memories.  An obituary is on the way. The family also requests that people consider a donation to Phildev as a way to honor his memory.

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Joshua Van wins the UFC Flyweight Championship

The UFC has another AAPI champion after Joshua Van wins the UFC Flyweight Championship. He won after he caught a kick from Alexandre Pantoja at UFC 323. Pantoja injured his elbow when he tried to break his fall. Definitely didn’t want to include video of that injury. Sherdog has named him their 2025 Male Fighter of the Year.

Amazingly enough, the Myanmar-born Van is only 24 years old. He is the UFC’s first Asian-born male champion. He joins the list of other AAPI UFC champions like BJ Penn, Benson Henderson, and Max Holloway.

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Filipino Fast Food Chain Jollibee on the Rise

Filipino Fast Food Chain Jollibee mascotNumber One Son and I would always stop by the Union City Jollibee on our way home from a particular basketball tournament. My children ate Jollibee through their childhood,  an experience so different from mine. We had no Filipino restaurant chains when I was growing up. I knew that the Filipino fast food chain Jollibee was expanding around the world, and this article from the Atlantic saying that the Filipino fast food giant was working to become a giant in the the US and worldwide confirms that hunch.

You might think that the US fast food market is too saturated for major new players, but Jollibee’s unique aspects will make it grow.  Its Chickenjoy is really good. In 2022, Eater magazine ranked Chickenjoy higher than any American fried chicken. This year, USA Today rated it the best fast food fried chicken. I have to agree – I like Chickenjoy better than any of its American competitors.  Jollibee is also expanding through acquisition, acquiring Smashburger and Coffee Bean and Tea Leaf. Jollibee has come a long way since a cringy review by SFist in 2010.

Filipino Fast Food Chain Jollibee store in Earl's CourtI usually get the Aloha burger, and then eat some of The Wife’s Chickenjoy. I don’t like their spaghetti, and I am not a big fan of palabok (a noodle dish) that much. Love to finish with the peach mango pie. My brother tends to look at Jollibee restaurants as a marker of Filipino presence.  He sent me a picture of this one in Earl’s Court London, where a lot of Filipinos live.

What I find so interesting about this is that Jollibee’s products are “Asian American” in a unique way. Jollibee’s burgers, fried chicken, and spaghetti were brought over when the US colonized the Philippines.  Asian tastes transformed that American food and brought it back to the US. The chain has expanded in the US and worldwide, with over 1700 branches. I would say that it is definitely safe to say that Filipino food has arrived.

If you want to check out a Jollibee near you, you can use their location link.

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The First Asian American Rabbi: Angela Buchdahl

I read about the first Asian American Rabbi, Angela Buchdahl, in an article talking about her visit to San Francisco synagogue. She was promoting her recently published book, Heart of a Stranger: An Unlikely Rabbi’s Story of Faith, Identity, and Belonging. I haven’t yet read her book, and to learn more about her, I listened to the interview embedded above. Buchdahl tells a fascinating story about her journey from as a biracial child in Seoul to becoming a highly influential and followed rabbi. She is the senior rabbi of a Central Synagogue, major synagogue in Manhattan. The Central Synagogue’s YouTube channel has over 70,000 subscribers.

The notion of being a “stranger” resonates with me as an Asian American. The title made me think of another book, Strangers from a Different Shore by Ronald Takaki. It also reminded me of the feeling of many Asian Americans that they feel that they don’t fit in in either Asia or in the United States. In the interview, Buchdahl tells the story of playing with Korean children when she was a child. They asked her where she was from, and she said to them in Korean that she was from Korea.  The other children told her that she was not.

There are a lot of interesting subjects discussed in this interview, including her views on the new New York Mayor Zohran Mamdani and on the relationship between disagreements, debate, and democracy in US society. It’s an hour long, but well worth the listen.

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Boston Mayor Michelle Wu Duet with Yo-Yo Ma

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An honor and dream come true to perform alongside @yoyoma.official at Boston Symphony Hall. 💜 Thank you @celebrityseriesofboston for fostering a love for the arts in our city always and for this extraordinary We The People live broadcast shared last night at more than 20 locations across Massachusetts. And thank you to Yo-Yo Ma, one of the greatest musicians in the world, a global ambassador who is bringing people together around our shared humanity, and our neighbor! Welcome home! 🎼Ave Maria (Bach/Gounod)

♬ original sound – Boston Mayor Michelle Wu – Boston Mayor Michelle Wu

I enjoyed this Michelle Wu Duet with Yo-Yo Ma and thought that I would share. While Ave Maria by Gounod isn’t as difficult as Rhapsody in Blue, which Boston Mayor Wu performed with the Boston Pops, it is still a good listen. Music lovers may recognize the piano part as being derived from Bach’s Prelude Number 1 in C Major. I recognized that part, having played the Bach piece before.

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Asian American Commercial Watch: ‘Miles Apart’ – A Hallmark/United original Mini Movie

Scene from "Miles Part" - a mini movie from Hallmark and United AirlinesI was pleasantly surprised by this four minute mini movie called Miles Apart advertised by United Airlines on Facebook:

“While flying United Polaris business class back to her job in the Big City, a conflicted traveler overshares with her fellow passengers and crew about a rather complicated reunion with her ex over the holidays. When love takes flight, will miles get in the way? With Ginna Claire Mason and Ryan Youngwoong Kim. Featuring United employees Enricka A., Corey J., Marienid R., Kimberly A. and Eric M., Ginna Claire’s real-life husband! ”

I wonder why the actress Ginna Claire’ Mason‘s real life husband “Eric” play her boyfriend in Miles Apart. Maybe he’s shy!

According to actor Ryan Youngwoong Kim’s IMDB mini biography:

“Ryan Youngwoong Kim is a Korean-American actor. Ryan was born in Southern California and currently lives in Brooklyn, New York. He has trained at Terry Knickerbocker Studio, The Actors Circle, UCLA’s School of Theater, Film & Television, and privately with respected acting coaches in New York and Los Angeles. Prior to pursuing acting full-time, Ryan attended NYU School of Law and was a senior attorney at a prestigious law firm in New York.”

I’m guessing that Ryan’s parents (like many Asian parents) didn’t want him to pursue an entertainment career or that he didn’t think it was originally possible. Other Asian heritage actors of note that had a legal background or education prior to pursuing acting are Ronny Chieng and Gemma Chan. I’m hoping we see more of Ryan Youngwoong Kim in the future!

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Rosemead: Review, Lucy Liu Interview, and Extremely Limited NYC LA Release

Rosemead movie poster with Lucy LiuI first heard of the film Rosemead when I saw a social media post from a friend who happened to attend a screening in New York City back in May of this year. The movie starred actress Lucy Liu, of whom I’ve been a big fan of ever since I had seen her in her breakout role in the television show ‘Ally McBeal’ as Ling Woo. My favorite and most iconic role of hers is O-Ren Ishii in the film Kill Bill.

I was very excited at the opportunity recently to attend a screening of ‘Rosemead’ by SFFILM with Lucy Liu in attendance. I did not know much about the film except that it the film was based on a tragic real life story back in 2017 in Rosemead, California. This story portrayed an immigrant widower Taiwanese mother who was struggling with her cancer coming out of remission and her high school senior son struggling with schizophrenia. Both cancer and mental illness are considered very taboo in the broader Asian American community.

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The Faces of Ruth Asawa – Cantor Arts Center at Stanford University

The Faces of Ruth Asawa mask collection at Stanford's Cantor Art CenterThe Ruth Asawa Retrospective may have moved from San Francisco to New York, but a particularly fascinating exhibit of her work remains in the Bay Area.  The Cantor Art Center at Stanford University is hosting The Faces of Ruth Asawa. This collection contains the masks that she made and hung in her home. While Asawa is best known for her wire mesh sculptures, she also experimented in many other forms. As the exhibit explains, she made masks of friends, family, and others for over 30 years.

When I went to see it, I was struck by the variety of people allowed her to make masks of her face. One can understand having her family and friends.  Surprisingly, she captured the faces of powerful people like Cyril Magnin. The information desk person told me that I should look for Willie Brown’s mask.  Willie Brown was a former mayor of San Francisco and Speaker of the California Assembly.

The masks are mounted together on a wall as shown below. The Cantor Art Center of Stanford University is located at 328 Lomita Drive, Stanford California. In addition to the Faces of Ruth Asawa, Stanford also hosts an online archive of her papers.

 

 

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Burglars Target Asian Americans across the United States

Burglars target Asian AmericansMany news outlets across the country have reported how burglars target Asian Americans for robbery. Organized crime rings from South America are behind the crimes.  In states as varied as Oregon, Colorado and Florida, these crime rings rob the homes of Asian American business owners. Law enforcement officials say that Columbia nationals, some on expired visas, are the culprits.

Similar highly technical and well planned tactics in different locations hint that highly mobile organized rings might be behind the robberies. These rings use of wi-fi jammers to block wireless based cameras and alarms systems. Other tactics include setting up trail cameras to monitor Asian American business owners routines. The burglars target Asian Americans sometimes by following them at places like H-Mart.

Over the years, we have written how Asian Americans been targeted for robbery.  Some criminals consider Asian Americans idea prey. South Asians have been targeted for their gold jewelry. South Sacramento business owners have been systematically followed and robbed. In addition, the parking lots of Asian American malls in my ethnoburb have signs warning not to leave valuables in cars because of break-ins.

The Asian American Foundation (TAAF) analyzed these AAPI targeted robberies as a whole. What seems to be different this time is that the robbers are using the same sophisticated tactics in in organized crime groups operating across the United States. Can progress be made against these criminals? TAAF reports that with the right approach, some progress can be made.

 

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Asian American Grammy Nominations for 2026

Grammy Award for Kenny Rogers - used as part of post on Asian American Grammy Nominations

News about Asian American Grammy Nominations for 2026:  there are a lot of them! I can’t think of another year that nominated so many Asian Americans.  There is definitely a K-Pop influence with KPop Demon Hunters Huntr/X song Golden getting three nominations. The Golden remix by David Guetta (included above) with David Guetta qualified for a remix nomination. The KPop Demon Hunters album was also nominated for best compilation album.

Rosé and Bruno Mars’ APT received three nominations. The nominations include Record of the year, Song of the Year, and for Pop Duo/Group performance.  They will be going up against Huntr/X in that last category.

The group Katseye, produced by Korean music juggernaut Hybe and which has an Asian American in it, got two nominations. One of those was for best new artist and another for Pop Duo/Group performance for their song Gabriella. Anderson .Paak got a nomination for best Dance/EDM song No Cap. The musical Maybe Happy Ending even got one for a Musical Theatre Album! Darren Criss could be one step closer to EGOT, as he already has an Emmy and a Tony award.

You can see all of the 2026 Grammy Nominations here.  The awards ceremony will be held on February 1 and shown on CBS and Paramount+.

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Isabella Alcaraz becomes San Francisco’s first Filipina District Supervisor

Isabella Alcaraz is the new supervisor of the Sunset DistrictAfter Joel Engardio lost a recall election over his support for the closing of San Francisco’s Great Highway, San Francisco mayor Daniel Lurie appointed Isabella Alcaraz as the new Supervisor of the Sunset District. The 29 year teacher and former pet store owner is San Francisco’s first Filipina District Supervisor.

Isabella “Beya” Alcaraz is a political newcomer who has not held office before.  She reportedly got her job by introducing herself to the mayor and saying she wanted the job. Alcaraz will service in the role until a special election in June 2026.

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